My Crazy Office

My Crazy Office is a weekly workplace podcast dedicated to helping listeners navigate their careers. Executive coach Kathi Elster and career therapist Katherine Crowley combine their expertise to solve both serious and silly situations at work. Join Kathi and Katherine as they answer real workplace questions with solid advice and a side of humor. Do you have someone or something at work that’s driving your crazy? Send your questions to info@mycrazyoffice.co. (All submissions kept confidential.)

Breaking up is so hard to do!!

First there’s anger, then the disappointment, then the anger again. Like our book Working with You Is Killing Me says, take the high road when communicating. I know I read our books, oh right I co-wrote them. But, why is it so hard to always take the high road? Maybe it’s because (if you are like me) it’s so much fun to get even. It takes me a good week to go from angry to cooled off enough in order to get to that high road approach.

It doesn’t seem to matter how hard I pressure myself to get over a relationship it takes me a week. I have to process my feelings, which change daily. I have to process my thoughts which never stop. Once I reach a place of completion everything subsides. I finally have the ability to take a high road approach and communicate in a way that does not burn a bridge with someone that I once cared for.

Relationships are a lot of work, and breaking up in a nice way is worth the week of torture for me. Now, if I can just remember to take the week and process before I open my mouth.

(No Comments) | Subscribe: iTunes | Soundcloud | Google Play | Sticher | Android | RSS

Rain Man

I was running late this morning (rain pouring, subways down, bus late) so when I arrived at Port Authority, I quickly grabbed a cab for the final leg of my commute.

Once in the cab, the driver noticed that I seemed thrown by the rain. “People are never happy with what the weather is doing,” he remarked.”When it rains they complain about being wet. When it snows they say ‘Oh God’. Even when it’s sunny they complain about the heat.”

He had my attention because he was right. “What we need to do is think about the rain and how it makes drinking water, and feeds the earth, and keeps things alive. We need to be grateful for rain and for things we can’t see… like breath.”

Now he really had my attention.

My Rain Man taxi driver then reminded me that life is a gift, and I should appreciate everything i have; consider the benefit of every kind of weather. He even told me to be grateful for my looks. “You’re pretty cute, you know. That makes people want to talk to you.”

Thank you Rain Man for brightening my day and putting my focus where it belongs — on gratitude.

(No Comments) | Subscribe: iTunes | Soundcloud | Google Play | Sticher | Android | RSS

Ask K2

K2 Video Tips

Ask K2

Watch the AskK2 video blogs where Kathi and Katherine answer your questions about workplace relationships.

Read More →

Books by K2

Bestselling authors Katherine and Kathi use humor and a slue of engaging techniques to mediate solutions for individuals at every level of employment — from executives to managers to frontline employees.

Books by Kathi and Katherine
Learn More →